flash decoding

Batch-1 decode at long context gives the GPU eight thread blocks and 132 SMs. The answer counts the waves, picks the split count from a wave-efficiency rule rather than a guess, and derives the merge that makes the result exact.

At batch 1 a decode attention kernel gives each KV head one thread block and leaves most of the GPU idle. The answer splits the sequence, carries a log-sum-exp with every partial output, merges them exactly, and survives the split that has no keys at all.